Why Millionaires’ Money Habits Are Different Than We Think (2024)

Years ago, the authors of The Millionaire Next Doormade a splash with what should be an obvious point: being a millionaire amounts to having a certain net worth. Since most consumer goods are not actually appreciating assets, having a high net worth requires spending less than one makes on consumer goods. The difference between what one earns and one spends can be invested in assets that are more likely to appreciate (stocks, a business). Over some amount of time, these assets may cross the 7-figure mark. If you earn more than 7-figures per year, it can cross it quite quickly. But as most people who read personal finance books aren’t in that situation, personal finance writers have, in general, been more interested in the millionaires with 6-figure incomes (or in some cases, even 5-figure incomes). These families must live relatively modestly to have significant savings that, over decades, launch their net worth into the 7-figures. They are, as The Millionaire Next Door puts it, “Frugal Frugal Frugal.” (That is a chapter title).

This idea of the frugal millionaire has become gospel in personal finance circles. In particular, many people have become quite excited about millionaires driving used cars. Dave Ramsey has a spiel about millionaires being “people just like you who work hard, don’t live in fancy houses, and drive used cars.”

It is true that in The Millionaire Next Door, the authors reported that only 23.5 percent of millionaires drive the current year’s model. But this is not quite the same as saying the majority are driving around in used (as in pre-owned) vehicles. The book reports that “nearly 37 percent” of millionaires bought their cars used. By my calculation, that means that the majority (63 percent) bought new cars — they just didn’t keep buying new cars every year. But that also doesn’t mean they kept them that long either. The authors make a big deal about the fact that 25.2 percent of millionaires have not purchased a car in four or more years, but if you look at the chart, this also shows that roughly three-quarters of millionaires drive cars that are three or fewer years old. (Thomas J. Stanley, one of The Millionaire Next Door authors, writes about the used car myth here).

The reality that most millionaires buy their cars new, and that their cars are three or fewer years old, isn’t surprising. So why do people so want the opposite to be true? The Millionaire Next Door has a scene of a man with an 8-figure net worth (>$10,000,000) announcing he drinks Budweiser, which is held out as so interesting that the authors call him Mr. Bud. But this same gentleman also mentions drinking scotch, which is often quite a bit pricier. Calling him Mr. Scotch wouldn’t have created the same impression.

I’ve been amazed, as I spent the past few years researching and thinking about personal finance for All the Money in the World, just how strong the morality tale aspect of wealth is in the common narrative. I say this as someone who very much admires what it takes to grow a business, but I also think a lot of the personal finance literature misses the mark with preaching that millionaires are frugal people, and by extension, people who drive new cars and wear sharp clothes must be deep in debt, or at least broke, and trying to impress the Joneses. “Could it be that they have chosen to trade wealth for acquiring high-status material possessions?” Maybe. But it’s also true that most material possessions cost a rather insignificant chunk of truly wealthy people’s net worth.

I was struck by this while helping to research a package for Fortune back in 2000 called “40 under 40.” We tried to find the forty richest Americans under age 40 (this was during the dot-com craze). Part of that was estimating net worth. We soon realized that there was no point in even looking at people’s homes — by the time you got to the top 40, any personal real estate holding was pretty much irrelevant. It may not be irrelevant for a more “average” wealthy person, but homes are by far the most expensive thing most people own. A car? Clothes? A rather insignificant market fluctuation (let’s say 0.15% rise or fall) translates into a $15,000 daily change on a $10,000,000 portfolio. In that world, does a new car say that our millionaire is trying to impress someone? Or does it just say he liked that car?

The morality tale narrative would point out that most people don’t know folks worth $10,000,000 — so if they see someone driving a shiny new car, it says something else. Perhaps. But that doesn’t mean that all wealthy folks are hunting the sales racks at K-Mart, too, or adopting an intense coupon habit, and that this has anything to do with their net worth. Indeed, as I wrote before on one very small survey of women who owned $1-million-plus businesses, all of them were getting their groceries delivered. It wasn’t about frugality. Their favorite currency was time.

A version of this article originally appeared on Laura Vanderkam’s website.

Why Millionaires’ Money Habits Are Different Than We Think (2024)

FAQs

How do the rich and poor think differently? ›

Rich mindsets focus on the rewards. Poor mindsets focus on the risks. We're not merely talking about “positive thinking” here, we're talking about a habitual way of seeing the world. Poor people come from fear.

What is the habit of a millionaire? ›

Invest Wisely: Millionaires typically prioritize long-term investing over short-term spending. They focus on building wealth through investments in stocks, bonds and real estate. Live Below Their Means: Millionaires often spend less than they earn, leaving room for savings and investment.

What is the difference between rich and wealthy mindset? ›

Rich people may focus more on spending and maintaining a certain lifestyle, while wealthy people may prioritize accumulating assets that produce income or appreciate in value. The distinction between rich and wealthy also lies in how they approach investments, expenses, and financial planning.

Do 90% of millionaires make over 100k a year? ›

Ninety-three percent of millionaires said they got their wealth because they worked hard, not because they had big salaries. Only 31% averaged $100,000 a year over the course of their career, and one-third never made six figures in any single working year of their career.

What is the mentality of rich vs poor people? ›

Rich mindset understands that it cannot do everything, and that even if it could, it would create greater value by focusing on its core strengths. It knows that the right team is greater than the sum of its parts. Poor mindset deludes itself into thinking that it can do everything if it just works hard enough.

How do rich people behave differently? ›

The two studies consistently found that rich people are more conscientious, open to experience, and extraverted than the average population. They are also less agreeable (that is, less likely to shy away from conflict) and less neurotic (as in, more psychologically stable).

What mindset do millionaires have? ›

It includes a blend of confidence, courage, strategic thinking, resilience, and a relentless work ethic. Behind every successful millionaire is a powerful vision. Without a clear and compelling vision, it's easy to veer off course and lose sight of your long-term goals.

How do you know someone is wealthy? ›

9 subtle ways to tell if someone is wealthy, even if they try not...
  1. 1) Watch their spending habits. ...
  2. 2) They value time over money. ...
  3. 3) They don't flaunt designer labels. ...
  4. 4) They're not in a hurry. ...
  5. 5) They have a specific way with words. ...
  6. 6) They give generously. ...
  7. 7) They're not impressed by status symbols.
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What is the richest mindset? ›

What are the habits of a millionaire mindset?
  • Put yourself out there. ...
  • Be patient. ...
  • Accept mistakes as they come. ...
  • Don't forget about sleep. ...
  • Keep growth in mind. ...
  • Stop making excuses for yourself. ...
  • Learn to invest. ...
  • Adopt a “now” mentality.

What kind of car do millionaires drive? ›

While some wealthy Americans drive luxury vehicles, an Experian Automotive study found that a whopping 61% of wealthy people with household incomes of more than $250,000 don't drive luxury brands. Instead, they drive less showy cars, such as Hondas, Toyotas and Fords, Ramsey said in an article.

What degree do most millionaires have? ›

You can study Engineering, Economics/Finance, Politics, Mathematics, Computer Science, Law, or MBA to enhance your financial strength, as these are some of the highest-paying degrees in the world.

How rich people think differently? ›

Average people focus on saving. Rich people focus on earning. Siebold theorizes that the wealthy focus on what they'll gain by taking risks, rather than how to save what they have. "The masses are so focused on clipping coupons and living frugally they miss major opportunities," he writes.

How are the rich different from the poor? ›

Rich people see money as an opportunity, poor people see it as something to be earned. Rich people are said to make money work for them. Instead of just working and relying on income, a rich person would take a proportion of their income and invest it. Compounded interest works in favour of the rich.

What is the difference between broke and poor mentality? ›

Being broke refers to a current financial situation. Poor however, is a state of mind. The person who is broke can rectify their circ*mstances by improving their finances. As a solution, they seek to change their strategy in a way to improve their finances.

Does wealth change the way you think? ›

Psychologists who study the impact of wealth and inequality on human behavior have found that money can powerfully influence our thoughts and actions in ways that we're often not aware of, no matter our economic circ*mstances.

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